A COMMITMENT-PHOBIC man has explained the condition which has condemned him to a life of meaningless hook-ups and serial infidelity deserves nothing but sympathy.
Tom Logan has explained to Sophie Rodriguez, who he has been dating for the last year, that he cannot help his genuine terror of commitment and that he is the real victim in this situation.
He said: “I struggle with the idea of a long-term, monogamous relationship – and, oh dear Lord, it is a struggle.
“I am powerless not to panic and push away any woman who suggests moving in, going exclusive or staying overnight after sex. It’s not me, you see, it’s my issues and they are beyond my control.
“Don’t you think I would love nothing more than to have a beautiful girlfriend who I didn’t cheat on? To look in her eyes knowing that I wasn’t sleeping with my ex, my other ex, and her best friend? Yet I never can.
“It is psychological torment to never be able to settle, to never face that which I desire and fear the most. The prospect of being stuck forever with one woman who ages while preventing me from shagging others terrifies me, for reasons I can’t quite pinpoint.
“And Sophie, if you truly love me, why would you want me to be scared?”