WANT to call someone an irritating bellend but can’t get away with it in present company? Try using these phrases instead:
Feisty
Got a neighbour who plays dubstep until 2am on a Wednesday night and threatens to punch your f**king lights out when you knock on the door and ask her to stop? Describe her as ‘feisty’ to the people you’re now trying to sell your house to, so she sounds like a camp Eastenders matriarch rather than an infuriating nightmare.
Sassy
Work with someone, male or female, who’s a total bitch? The type of person who swishes around the office making snippy comments, slagging people off and generally acting like they’re a supporting character in The Devil Wears Prada, rather than an admin assistant in an accountancy firm in Yate? You want to call them a judgemental twat to colleagues, but instead settle for ‘sassy’.
Cocksure
Your brother-in-law is an arrogant prick who loves the sound of his own voice and ruins every family get together by insisting that 15-minute cities are an authoritarian clampdown by the WEF and Beyoncé is in the Illuminati. Instead of causing a rift by saying he’s stupid bellend who never shuts his massive gob, go for ‘cocksure’ and then add under your breath ‘or just cock’.
Highly strung
Got a pal who’s on a hair-trigger on a night out, desperate to have a row with a stranger and then disappear to the loo and cry for an hour while you try and coax them out? When explaining to the annoyed bar staff why your friend is monopolising the single toilet cubicle and pissing off the other customers, you say they are ‘highly strung’ instead of being honest and saying ‘I can’t stand them but as you can see they’re so fragile that I can never be free of them’.
Got a lot of energy
This one is usually reserved for children and mostly used by other people talking about your offspring. You’d be offended but after your kids have ruined a holiday with your childless friends by continually doing shriekingly loud impressions of Bing and throwing tantrums every six minutes, you appreciate that they are being kind and this description is an enormous understatement.
A character
Bringing a friend you’ve known since school who has some questionable opinions to meet some new friends who will definitely be appalled by them? Try and pre-emptively smooth things over by describing them as ‘a character’. This shows you know they’re a boorish dickhead without overtly describing them as that. However, it doesn’t explain why you brought them to the bar and they’re now calling Tommy Robinson ‘an alright bloke’. Your new friends probably won’t be your new friends for long.